Sick of our yard owner?! PLEASE READ AND ANSWER THANKS XO?

please help..
my mam is buying this yard and when she agreed to buy it, it was beautiful. no trouble..
then a family moved on and again its all kicked off.. causing sh*t.
So people on the yard are falling out.
The yard owner has been harrsinging my mam, because it is such alot of money and so much land that needs to be survayd that it is taking awhile longer.. the place is amess though. Me and my mam are buying erm about 7 horses off him, and have 4 or 5 horses on there,
he told my mam not to pay rent for the horses as were buying it, so we didnt lol.
my mam told the owner that a survayer needs to come onto the yard to make sure its worth that much 800,000 pound.
and its alot of money lol! but the yard owner as soon as my mam said this he has been harrasing my mam morning noon and night, asking if she has been to see her solicitor, and she had. ringing her up and shouting at her once hes had a drink. then once im at the yard he has been horrible to me, shouting at me for nothing, telling me to tidy up things that arint mine. Just been down right awful. my mam went in and told him straight but now hes even worse.
my mam told her solicitor and the yardowner, is being horrible to his own solicitor, harrasing him.
So everyone is sick of him. i dont get why he is being nasty to me, what should i do?
he is now saying he wants rent off us.
thanks sorry if you cannot understand it lol x

3 Responses to “Sick of our yard owner?! PLEASE READ AND ANSWER THANKS XO?”

  1. nikki s Says:

    has your mum got any of this in writing? That she is buying the place? That your horses are being agisted for free? She has no rights whatso ever if she has nothing in writing. He should realise that this is a long legal process and it needs to be done in the correct legal manner. If it were me and my kids, i would just refuse to talk to him at all, if he calls, tell him to talk to your lawyer. I wouldnt take it personally, i cant guess why he is being horrible and nasty, but it is more than likely because he wants the sale to go through quickly and without any fuss. Dont let him push you or your family around.

  2. Carrie Mclachlan Says:

    I PERSONALLY WOULD BE VERY WEARY OF BUYING STRAW OF THIS MAN LET ALONE LAND, I WOULD SERIOUSLY GET YOUR MUM TO DO SOME DIGGING, WHY IS HE SO DESPERATE TO SELL, WHY IS HE AGAINST THE SURVEY BEING DONE, BUT PLEASE DO NT BUY IT WITHOUT THIS BEING DONE, BUT PERSONALLY ………….. I WOULD TAKE MY HORSES AN MOVE AN FIND LAND SOMEWHERE ELSE YOU CAN BUY

  3. burdfour Says:

    Suggest to your mom that she let the solicitor handle ALL of this. Maybe she can block they guy’s number, and have the solicitor make ALL contact with this guy. It will be quite wonderful to own your own barn, but the legal junk MUST get out of the way first. I would want to consider moving my horses until this is all over and mr jerk has been evicted.